You probably never meant for this to happen.

It's not as if you went looking for a lover.

However, things got rather intense once you got involved with this other person. 

You might already be in what some refer to as an emotional affair, or maybe you've gone further, and the relationship's turned physical.

You most likely don't want to hurt the person you're married to. You don't mean to harm family, friends, co-workers, church buddies, or anyone else. You desire to have this new relationship, not to hurt anyone.

There are inevitable complications to consider, however. So, ask yourself the question; what happens next?